Mental Health

When Nerves Become More Than Nerves

Understanding anxiety in athletes and what to do about it.

Dr. Jarell R.O. Myers, Ph.D. Licensed Clinical Psychologist | Ironwave Mind and Performance Lab

Every athlete knows what pressure feels like. The elevated heart rate before a big game. The restless sleep the night before. That low-grade hum of worry that follows you through the week leading up to a competition. For most athletes most of the time, that feeling is normal and even useful.

But for a meaningful number of athletes, anxiety goes beyond nerves. It becomes something that interferes with sleep, with training, with relationships, and with the ability to perform in moments that matter most. And because sport culture tends to celebrate mental toughness and pathologize vulnerability, that anxiety often goes unnamed for years.

What anxiety actually is

Anxiety is not weakness and it is not a character flaw. It is a nervous system response that developed over millions of years to protect us from threat. The problem is that the nervous system does not always distinguish between a predator and a playoff game. It responds to both with the same cascade of physiological changes: elevated heart rate, narrowed attention, muscle tension, rapid breathing, and a strong pull toward avoidance.


When those responses are proportionate and temporary, they are useful. When they are disproportionate and persistent, they interfere with the things that matter.

What the research says

A 2025 meta-analysis published in Frontiers in Psychology, reviewing 24 controlled trials across 853 athletes, found that psychological interventions produced significant reductions in athlete anxiety across sport types and competitive levels. A separate systematic review found that CBT-based interventions were particularly effective, reducing anxiety symptoms and improving performance outcomes when combined with other evidence-based techniques.

The interventions that work are not complicated. They involve learning to recognize the physical signs of anxiety early, understanding what thoughts are driving the response, and building skills to tolerate discomfort without retreating from it. Exposure-based approaches in particular have decades of research support showing that avoidance maintains anxiety while approach builds tolerance.

What this means for you

If anxiety is showing up in your athletic life in ways that feel bigger than normal nerves, you are not alone and you are not broken. The evidence is clear that anxiety is treatable. With the right support, athletes learn not to eliminate anxiety but to change their relationship with it.

The goal is not to feel calm before competition. The goal is to perform well even when you do not.

TL;DR — The Main Points

  • Anxiety in athletes is common and often goes unaddressed because sport culture discourages vulnerability.

  • Anxiety is a nervous system response, not a character flaw or mental weakness.

  • Research shows psychological interventions including CBT and exposure-based approaches significantly reduce athlete anxiety.

  • The goal of treatment is not eliminating anxiety but building the capacity to perform through it.

  • If anxiety is interfering with your sport, your training, or your life, it is worth addressing with a qualified professional.

References

Li, H., Yang, Q., & Wang, B. (2025). Effects of psychological interventions on anxiety in athletes: A meta-analysis based on controlled trials. Frontiers in Psychology, 16, Article 1621635. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2025.1621635

Lochbaum, M., Stoner, E., Schmitz, R., & Petroczi, A. (2023). The role of cognitive-behavioral therapy in athletic performance: A systematic review. Journal of Pharmaceutical and Therapeutic Practices in Clinical Practice, 30(18), 214–223.

853

Athletes across 24 controlled trials showed significant anxiety reduction with psychological intervention (Li et al., 2025)

What helps

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Exposure and Response Prevention, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy are among the most evidence-supported approaches for anxiety in athletes. The right fit depends on the specific presentation.

Signs it may be more than nerves

Difficulty sleeping before competition weeks in advance. Avoidance of training or competition scenarios. Physical symptoms that persist outside of high-stakes moments. Anxiety that interferes with daily functioning beyond sport

Ironwave works with athletes navigating anxiety at every level. The first step is a conversation.